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True Convivium: Friendship with Fellow Teachers

“Friendship is one of the most indispensable requirements of life,” says Aristotle in the Nicomachean Ethics. But, adds Alasdair MacInytre, it’s also “difficult and often enough impossible—especially under the conditions characteristic of contemporary modernity.”

Today on HeightsCast, long-time colleagues (and friends!) Austin Hatch and Tom Steenson reflect on the nature of friendship, and why it was chosen as the theme for the 2026 Convivium Conference for Teaching Men, hosted by The Heights Forum this November.

What is the value of friendships among fellow faculty? What are the ingredients of that friendship? How should individual teachers seek it? How can school leaders foster it? And how might the students benefit?

Mr. Hatch and Mr. Steenson begin to scratch the surface of these questions in preparation for the deep-dive at this year’s Convivium. If you’d like to join us, registrations, essays for the conference companion, and proposals for breakout sessions are now being accepted.

Chapters:

7:42 Aristotle and Cicero on friendship

12:46 Teaching: a shared life

16:09 Friendship: shared work, shared mission

20:31 Time constraints to friendship

24:50 Faculty friendship’s effect on students

32:41 Maintaining culture as the school grows

38:34 Education: a raising of friends

44:24 Best practices for school leaders, individual teachers

Links:

De Nicola Center for Ethics and Culture Keynote: Is Friendship Possible? featuring Alasdair MacInytre

“Economy and Pleasure” in The Art of the Commonplace by Wendell Berry

Also on the Forum:

Faculty of Friends: Making Schools into Communities featuring Tom Cox

Friendship for Fathers: John Cuddeback on Living and Teaching the Art featuring Dr. John Cuddeback

On Hiring Teachers: Drafting a Faculty of Friends featuring Alvaro de Vicente

About the Authors

Austin Hatch

Ninth Grade Core, History of Western Thought, Jackson Scholars Senior Thesis

Austin Hatch began teaching at The Heights in 2004. He teaches 9th Grade Core and The History of Western Thought, and he directs The Jackson Scholars senior thesis program. He returned to the school in 2012 after two years in Houston, Texas as assistant headmaster, athletic director, basketball coach, and homeroom teacher at Western Academy. He has taught natural history, logic, English, and writing. He began his teaching and coaching career at St. John’s College High School in Washington, DC  in 1996. He holds a B.A. in English from the Catholic University of America and a Master’s in Liberal Arts from St. John’s College in Annapolis, Maryland. Austin’s wife, Elizabeth, is a family physical therapist and a home-schooling mother. The Hatches have seven children: Kiley, John Austin (’21), Samuel (’24), Beatrice, Flannery, Ezekiel, and Nathaniel.

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Tom Steenson

Fifth Grade Homeroom, History of Western Thought

Tom Steenson teaches fifth grade and the History of Western Thought. He arrived at The Heights in 2001, having earned a B.A. in 1996 at Thomas Aquinas College, where he developed a love of ancient Mathematics, Philosophy, and Theology. He moved to the D.C. area to study philosophy at The Catholic University of America, where he obtained an M.A., nearly got a Ph.D., and taught introductory philosophy courses. Tom and his wife, Melissa, have six children.

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