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Walking up a Seesaw

There is a famous line from a movie in which Tom Hanks says “Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you’re going to get.” This phrase is apparently so ingrained in American culture that my computer software just offered to finish typing the phrase for me after the first few words. I have never thought much of the phrase as a useful tool for getting through life. Sure, there are a lot of unexpected things that happen, but the box of chocolates idea seems so static…

Exercising Memory like the Pythagoreans

Exercising Memory Like the Pythagoreans Most people have heard of the Pythagorean Theorem, and can recite a2 + b2 = c2 on their way to finding the measurements of right triangles. But who was Pythagoras? Pythagoras was a very influential teacher, whose cultivation of the life of the mind with his students led to a way that endured for all time after he died. Like Socrates and Epicurus and Jesus and Mohammed, he impacted forever the lives of everyone he encountered, and his sayings were eagerly received and memorized and…

Atheism, Education, and Human Flourishing

Atheism is not natural. Creatures ought to know their Creator. This is a knowledge that is intuitively natural to them–to us. Atheism often results from formative influences that cut against the flourishing of the human person, influences that are a type of violence to the heart or mind, denying one what he should have by right. It is not typical for a person to be convinced by clever arguments against the existence of God unless he has been trained to view reality according to reductive paradigms. This corruption is often something outside…

The Wisdom and Wonder of Beatrix Potter

It may seem out of place to write about Beatrix Potter at a boys’ school; we associate her with the nursery or the Childrens’ Section at the library.  While we would be fortunate if we knew her there, it would be unfortunate if her influence and our knowledge of her extended no further.  She and her work are worth knowing, especially at a school such as The Heights, because they impart a love of nature and the proper relationship of man to the world around him that we would do…

What Is the Difference between Free Time and Leisure?

At first glance, the only difference between the terms “free time” and “leisure” seems to be that the latter has a slight connotation of the hoity-toity. Characters from a British novel sit around and sip tea and converse inanely because they’ve nothing better to do or because the author is P.G. Wodehouse and he thinks it is hilarious. Other than that, both terms imply a potential to do something enjoyable that is not dictated by the necessities of the day. Enjoyable, obviously. Unhampered by practical necessities, because as need hampers,…

Cultivating Friendship in the Classroom

In Shakespeare’s Henry V, Gower warns Fluellen not to take the pretender Pistol for the true soldier: “Why, ‘tis a gull, a fool, a rogue, that now and then goes to the wars, to grace himself at his return into London under the form of a soldier.[…] But you must learn to know such slanders of the age, or else you may be marvelously mistook.” (3.6.62-74) I make no claim to aspire to be Pistol; but after some 25 years in the friendly battles of the high-school classroom, I try…

Learning for All Seasons: What We Owe to Thomas More

Praising St. Thomas More for his contributions to The Heights School is something akin to praising a single link in the strongest of chains, or a single pearl among many in a beautiful necklace. In one sense, we are given the same task as St. Thomas: we are charged with the preservation and propagation of truth, prudence, and wisdom for the sake of ourselves, our children, our country, our culture, our Church, and our God. Thomas More completed the task with a high degree of human and divine excellence: our…

Toughness for the Adolescent Boy

Reclaiming Toughness A good man must be tough. In recent years, or probably decades now, the virtue of manly ‘toughness’ has come under heavy fire. Whether it come from news or entertainment media or national health and professional organizations, there are forces working to dramatically alter, if not outright destroy this foundational principle of authentic masculinity. Readers and listeners of The Forum are likely well aware of this crisis and can point out numerous instances of this undermining going on in our culture. You may have even noticed that the…

Manners: The Art of Happiness

In a scene from Jane Austen’s classic novel Sense and Sensibility, a young lady is playing the piano and singing. All in the room praise and applaud her. All, that is, except one man. As Austen writes, “He paid her only the compliment of attention” (Ch. 7).  That seems a fitting place to begin an essay on manners. Are Manners Fake? Some people don’t believe in manners. They say manners “try to make me into someone I’m not.” They sing, “I gotta be me.” Well, the point of manners is…

Sport as Liberal Art: Why Playing Well Matters

Lacrosse sticks, baseball mitts, and footballs are the first blossoms of spring at The Heights. They pop up long before the flowers, as the boys prepare for a season of activity. Each boy bears the tools of his art; some carry bags as big as themselves across the parking lot each morning. In the fall, classes stopped for a full day of flag football. On clan days, the boys engage in the School’s home-grown sports like thud and bull in-the-ring. All for sport. It is appropriate that sport has such…