The first images of a “protector” that flash through our minds might be the warrior, the superhero, the movie star physically holding back evil from invading the world. Our lower school head, Colin Gleason, casts a different vision: the benevolent king, the merciful brother, the knight at vigil in the sanctuary.
Yes, our role as fathers is to protect—most often through a steady presence that communicates security to our children. When we do our job well, they can live with confidence. In his talk from the Fatherhood Conference last fall, Colin identified five battlegrounds for protecting our families, most of which are in our own homes.
Chapters:
3:06 Images of the protector
8:27 Five battlegrounds:
12:02 Outside the home
18:50 At the dinner table
24:14 In the family room
28:18 In the backyard
32:42 At bedtime
37:43 Protection is a presence, not a moment
42:07 The real enemy: distraction
43:35 Praying for our children
Also on the Forum:
The Father as a Guide to the World featuring Michael Moynihan
The Father as Presence featuring Andrew Reed
Featured Opportunities:
The Art of Teaching Boys Conference at The Heights School (May 6-8, 2026)